Brian: "You have to be different." The Crowd: "Yes, we are all different!" Small lonely Voice: "I'm not different."
Sunday, May 31, 2009
Mantra Of The Day
No matter how many times he puts a hex on me to forget my camera! I have a wedding to attend. Photos will be taken dammit. Even if the bf is not amused.
Update: The wedding was very sweet and mellow. The camera was brought, bad photos were taken. The couple was so sweet and loving, it's great when you actually in the presence of people who really love each other. Since I knew the groom slightly, I can attest how awesome he is. When I was telling him I was making jokes at his expense all night - he happily encouraged me on. I got happily tipsy and when the conversation turned to Delaware and informed people I loved Joe Biden. I was also able to persuade Peter to dance with me to songs I will not admit I like in public. However I will admit that we kept asking ourselves "Where did the sexy go?" To his credit he did ask me to dance to the first song open to the public. Good times.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
I Would Like to Give the Middle Finger To All The Jews Who Said Obama Will Be A Great Supporter Of Israel
* I do realize I'm being obnoxious to some people I actually love and respect. However, I kind feel this is important.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Can't Tell Me Nothing
Inspired by this article about Zach Galfianakis. I've posted the song before but with a different video. Check out Fiona Apple's Not About Love.
False 1,000 Words
Things My Manager Has Freaked Out About (An Ongoing List)
- Snow (We live in New England)
- Rain ("Killer thunderstorms! There's a tornado heading for us!")
- My bloated feet, sending me to the ER thus I missed sushi dinner with my adorable bf.
- My co-workers bloated foot after she got a tattoo, my manager actually drove her to the ER, although she didn't want to go.
- My coworker's book about vampires. She actually shrieked when she read the back of the book.
- The Economy. Gloom and doom over here. Everyday I hear how I should be "thankful" for my shitty job. Makes coming to work that much more awesome.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Movie Review: Barcelona
It also reminds me that one of the scenes I loved was when Ted is admonishing Fred for revealing some personal information about him. And Fred very apologetically and lovingly explains how sometimes in the flow of the conversation you say things that might be less than appropriate. I really loved that exchange, I'm not sure why - maybe because I have found myself in that situation before - the over sharing I didn't mean to do and then having to face the consequences without realizing my words could cause harm.
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Get Me A Poker Table Stat
The evidence suggests that people who spend long stretches of their days, three hours and more, engrossed in some mental activities like cards may be at reduced risk of developing dementia.
Good Time
(Billy Cosby describes the typical weekend of people who go out drinking and questions just how hangovers and nausea can be considered essential parts of "having a good time.")
via Ken
Art out of Post It Notes

Related.
Career Path?
Judge Sonia Sotomayor
I'm guessing and hoping this kind of gaffe is going to cost her. Last time I checked it was the job of Judges to interpret the law and not make policy. How naive of me. Basically, her biggest qualification for the nomination is that she is Hispanic and a woman.
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Starting The Week Right
Brian & Eileen's Wedding Music Video. from LOCKDOWN projects on Vimeo.
via Mighty Girl
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Definitions of Love
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Bathroom Break
Compare and Contrast

I don't even need to know what the article actually says, I can tell from the photos. Obama stands majestically against the beautiful painting of (I presume) the Founding Fathers, while Cheney looks like he is about to bite someone - with a blurred figure of some white dude behind him. Nice phooto choice NYT - no bias to see here, move along.
Update: Best Tweet about the speech from Jim Treacher: BREAKING: Obama Makes History as First President to Give Speech on May 21, 2009about 13 hours ago from web
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
You've Really Got Hold On Me
On a related note, I love when women do this kind of pose, the slight bite of the finger - sensual and vulnerable at the same time, just like the song.
A Calling
Take my hairdresser, Aldo. He is in his mid sixties, he is Sicilian, he is illiterate, he is an ex-druggie, and his passion is making art out of cutting hair. Seriously. He is a genius with scissors and comb, the man can give a bald dude a fantastic haircut.
He takes his craft very seriously; even though he can't read he goes every weekend to Harvard Square to buy the latest European magazine to stay on top of the hottest trends, he poo-poos the American trained stylists, letting me know he studied the craft in England, he has done hair competitions in NYC and in LA, and the only reason why he doesn't charge a arm and a leg is that he is a nightmare to work with - it seems being a ex-druggie and having larger than life personality (the kind who will break out into a Diana Ross song without any warning) does not sit well with high end clients.
When he begins the haircut all the drama and labels fall away from him - he is not my crazy hairdresser with a colorful background, instead he is stepping up to his calling. There is incredible beauty in that - a person following their passion - allowing all the training, hard work, and expertise culminate - it's almost divine. I know the description sounds melodramatic, but I really do believe that there is some kind of divinity in doing what you love, what you are good at, and what makes you feel alive.
I want that.
Mitchell & Webb's Sherlock Holmes
The post below just gives me a really good excuse to post one of my favorite funny people. Check out Mitchell & Webb they are hilarious.
When I congratulated Peter last night for a Yankees win, he referenced this sketch below:
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Sherlock Holmes Trailer
This is one of the films I've been waiting to see for a long time. It has a few things going for it:
1. It's a Sherlock Holmes movie.
2. It has Robert Downey Jr. in it. Thus Sherlock Holmes will be smart and funny, the acting will also be good.
3. The trailer looks awesome.
The only con I can see from the trailer is that it has supernatural crap going on, unless it's going to be explained by some kind of scientific facts I don't like my Sherlock Holmes to go into the magic-realm. I think it's a theater worthy film. Can't wait.
P.S. If you want a modern Sherlock Holmes check out Zero Effect (you can play instantly on Netflix), it's funny and has a neat plot. Ace introduced the movie to me.
Pretty Woman as a Wedding Theme
Are Pigs Flying Yet?
Don’t ever say this to me: ‘Are you O.K.?’ It’s like yeah, motherfucker, I’m fine.via
Time Ninja
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Friday, May 15, 2009
Smoking? WTF?
I don't understand how showing smoking is now the ratings criteria? I like a blog which displays people smoking. I like the way people look when they smoke, however last time I visited Le Smoking, there was a Google advisory note - letting me know some people have found the blog objectionable. I get it, smoking is bad...but so are overzealous assholes.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
I Wish All Graffitti Was Like This
Here's more stuff by this guy. Some of it is so incredible. I really want to see this in real life.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
M.I.A. "Paper Airplanes"
Amelie and Chanel No. 5
The film, which took three months to complete, looks (and feels) like it’s from a distant, luxurious era.I love the ad, it's the typical caramel tint cinematography of Jeunet movies - just beautiful to look at. There is a long version and a short version, very dreamy.
I hate how a lot perfume commercials feature stupid, meaningless statements by beautiful women, I like how this is silent and just lets the song and images do the talking. I also liked the video of Tautou explaining why she did the commercial - this apparently her firs advert. "I always refused to do ads, and to be the face of perfume until now. Because, first I wanted to focus on my acting career, and I needed real sincerity in my 'yes.'"
As a capitalists I don't care if actors promote a product, as a film fan I hate seeing movie stars in ads, because it makes me associate them with the product and makes it that much harder to forget that watching a character on screen not Brad Pitt who peddles Swatches to the general public. This commercial feels less like a commercial and more like a luxurious mini-movie - so it's quite a happy medium between my two sides. Also, I agree with Tautou - Chanel No. 5 is an exceptional perfume.
I also agree that "For a woman, putting on perfume is the height of femininity." In fact there are many times in the day I forget that I'm a woman, little things like perfume remind me to take a revel in the fact, enjoy it. I have been trying to find a signature scent for a while and am dying to try these perfumes. I think my favorite perfume is Diorissimo, but I haven't seen lately and it's too much of splurge to buy it right now. However, I very much like to have a signature scent of my own. It's a huge compliment when someone leans over and tells you smell great.
I call B.S.
New And Old

Segei Larenkov has combined old photos of Leningrad under siege from the Nazis with modern photos of the city today. My great-grandfather perished in the Siege, while my grandfather almost died of starvation. The photos are haunting and strange (more here).
Best Simile I Read Today
So on that note and because I read this post and wholeheartedly agree - here's my favorite line I have read today:"She said that following the progress of your career over the years was her only truly wicked pleasure, and that it was like watching a massacre through a telescope." - Jincy Willett from "The Best of Betty"
I immediately liked that phrase, but it took me a while to realize what it really meant. And it was amazing.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Bleh
Afterthoughts: I meant to write a post about all the things I hated about Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, I found a draft an some notes - but not enough to write anything substantial.
- The Dresden bombings are not the same as the 9/11 attack. The devastation of Dresden has been exaggerated. The moral equivalence is pretty disgusting.
- Books with precocious little kids annoy me. He isn't that brilliant and his use of "raison d'etre" and other quirks is frankly pretentious and distracting.
- The last image that Foer uses at the end (a body falling out of the World Trade Center in reverse), is deeply offensive - a whimsical wish, a child's fantasy in the face of true evil. That's where the book ultimately fails for me, no amount of flip book magic can return the world to what it was before 9/11.
Friday, May 08, 2009
Song of the Day
It's been stuck in my head for like two weeks. Good thing it's an amazing song, I don't mind it too much.
Not So Random TV thought
Let Them Run Free
This is also one of the reasons I loved being in Israel. There, kids stay out till it's dark, hanging out and playing games. None of the play date stuff applies in Israel. In fact, although I would like my kids to grow up in the suburbs, part of me likes the idea of a city kids playing with a group from the block.
I loved reading this interview, mainly because it justifies my views:
Skenazy suggests that many American parents are in the grips of a national hysteria about child safety, which is fed by sensationalistic media coverage of child abductions, safety tips from alarmist parenting mags, and companies marketing products that promise to protect tykes from every possible danger. She by no means recommends that mom and dad chuck the car seats, but says that trying to fend off every possible risk, however remote, holds its own unfortunate, unintended consequences.I always thought it was strange, when I was in middle school, that a lot of my peers had never been to Boston (the suburb I grew up in is less than 20 min. away from downtown Boston)because their parents were afraid for them.
Side note: If I recall correctly, my sister, who is 5 years older than me, used to stay home with me alone when she was 7. I believe now days that's child neglect or something.
You Might Think
I love how trippy this video is and I love The Cars! This was one of the first videos I saw as a kid. I was a VH1 kid, instead of an MTV kid. I always liked it.
Fellows All Around
Thursday, May 07, 2009
Things I'm Not Allowed To Do
The King is Naked or something
Macca at Coachella 2009
Paul also explained how "Blackbird" was a song about the struggle of civil rights and how much of it had been realized in 2009 and that we "have President Obama". I cringed a little, but certainly knew where he was coming from - it wasn't an endorsement of the Obama himself, instead it was an endorsement of how far America had come. As Peter said, Paul is too smart to make overt political endorsements or statements.
Paul did a tribute to Linda since it was the eleventh anniversary since her death, with "My Love," telling the audience it was "for all the lovers in the audience" (ed. thanks Paul, but no thanks, the song was mediocre at the best - horrible melody & cliche lyrics). He then followed it up with tributes to John and George. He told a sweet story about asking George what he thought of a new song he learned to play on the ukulele and then broke into a very sweet rendition of "Something" He also sang a schmaltzy song “Here Today,” his tribute to Lennon, I actually appreciated how sweet and candid the song was. He also sang “A Day in the Life” which he melded into John Lennon’s “Give Peace a Chance” - when I mentioned to Peter how I love the former song but dislike the later, Peter said "At least it was a much better song than the one he composed for his late wife..." I used dismiss Paul's talents, thinking John was better, more complex, composer and lyricist. However, since getting The Beatles Anthology I appreciate him as musician so much more. In a lot of ways he was much more honest than John, and a lot more gracious.
At one moment, early in the set, when he started singing "Paperback Writer," I got an indescribably feeling - I kept saying to myself "I was seeing Paul live!" I can't fully explain it, but The Beatles are not just my favorite band, their songs are part of my life. I love the line in Nick Hornby's novel High Fidelity where Rob (the protagonist) puts on The Beatles after his break up with Liz, because while he doesn't know how their music is going to make him feel, he knows it won't make him feel bad. That's how I feel, The Beatles won't necessarily bring me joy, but they will bring a level of comfort other music can't. Seeing Paul on stage was too surreal of an experience. It's with great shame that I have to admit that I didn't stay for the whole set, in fact I heard the last 2 songs walking away to the campsite.
Day Tripper
Madrid 2009, originally uploaded by lynnbabe.
So my friend visited Madrid and posted a video of two of my favorite things: The Beatles and puppetry! Enjoy!
One of the reasons I don't text is
(810): did you make any bad decisions?
(248): many, i pretty much fell in love with a freshman...it doesn't get much better than that
This one made me snort out loud.
Most of the texts aren't very funny, just gross & vulgar. I like Sarah's texts much more.
Wednesday, May 06, 2009
Tuesday, May 05, 2009
Delusional
via Ace
P.S. I just saw Grey Gardens (the original documentary) and found it interesting but a bit repetitive. Half the time I was thinking I was watching actors, especially Little Eddie who is such a character. I didn't feel bad for them at all, in fact the film hit, on some levels, too close to home. The mother-daughter relationship, the loss of dreams and opportunity, and the delusions of life. It was a bit boring at times, but interesting nonetheless.
Pondering
It's the 5th of May
When this girl at the art museum asked me whom I liked better, Monet or Manet,
I said, "I like mayonnaise." She just stared at me, so I said it again,
louder. Then she left. I guess she went to try to find some mayonnaise for me.
Monday, May 04, 2009
Fruity Humor
“I feel stupid when I write the word banana. Its like, how many na’s are on this thing? ‘Cause I’m like ‘Bana … keep going. Bananana … damn.’ - Dimitri Martin
So Tired
2009 MIT Hack
via Samtron
I'm Thinking of Writing A Relationship/Dating Book
If you are not happy for at least 95% of the time in the relationship, you should split up. *
*Unless you have children. Then work on it as hard as possible to get it there - if you can.
Disclaimer: I'm not in any shape or form an expert on these things. Obviously, there's so much more to relationships/dating. However it took me such a long time to learn this simple truth. I've loved people who didn't make me happy and as hard as it was to not be with them, ultimately it would have been bad for both people to remain together. I feel like if everyone applied this standard a lot more people would be single, but at least more happy.
Also don't be like this guy. Guy should stop being such pussies and just ask the girl out. Seriously, in today's world it makes you look like Mr. Confident if you even attempt the first move. Also, I used to feel bad for guys who go the "friend" route - now, not so much. If you are attracted someone you only have yourself to blame if you put yourself in the friend category.
Friday, May 01, 2009
Not Surprising:
Julie & Julia
Update: I really like this excerpt, from the last post of the blog (The Julie/Julia Project) that inspired the movie, about Julia Childs on the day after she died:
fear-driven food fads; she could be set in her ways, even mulish, and
when she wanted to she could be withering. That’s fine. That’s good
even. We don’t need saints. Who changes their life under the
influence of a saint? Okay – don’t answer that. But the point is –
Julia was so impressive, so instructive, so exhilarating, because she
was a woman, not a goddess. Julia didn’t create armies of drones,
mindlessly equating her name with taste and muttering “It’s a Good
Thing” under their minty breath. Instead she created feisty, buttery,
adventurous cooks, always diving in to the next possible disaster,
because goddammit, if Julia did it, so could we.



