Monday, December 20, 2004

I Will Never Buy A Dating Advice Book

One of my biggest pet peeves is when i go out with some particular girlfriends and they start telling one another about their boyfriend/dating issues. Sure i love a little gossip now and then, but it always seems so superficial. I always feel like it is up to me to give useless (generic) reassuring answers. Love (and like, as well as lust) is a complicated, subtle, and fragile undertaking. To see one person as a prick and the other as a saint is treating life like a game show with right and wrong answers. I'm not saying i'm immune to (at times) analyzing every little said and unsaid word by the guys i date, but it seems so frustrating to find yourself doing this time after time. On that note i really want to see Easy.

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