It seems men have a special relationship with their hair. I don't know why but most (straight) men could give a rats ass about their appearance, only to be very concerned about how a lock of hair looks out of place. My best (gay) guy friend was super concerned with his hair - to the point of getting very upset if my hand came anywhere near his head. My past boyfriends (some straight, some gay - i kid, they were all gay, okay, I kid again) were also preoccupied with hair and how it looked. I mean a stained t-shirt is okay, but rumpled hair is out of the question.
What is the deep mystery with hair?